Monica Schipper/GA/The Hollywood Reporter via Getty Tia Mowry explains her take on why it's more important to lead your children, rather than make them happy all the time TheSister, Sisterstar shares son Cree, 14, and daughter Cairo, 7, with ex-husband Cory Hardrict "We don't want to create co-dependency," the actress said in a new interview Tia Mowryis doing motherhood her way. In a new interview withParadepublished on Aug. 22, the 47-year-old mother of two opened up about how she's raising her son Cree, 14, and daughter Cairo, 7, whom she shares with ex-husbandCory Hardrict. "I don't think it is your job to make your kids happy," theSister, Sisteractress told the outlet. Tia Mowry/Instagram Mowry said being a mom is much more than always seeing things go your kids' way. She added, "I think that it is your job to keep your kids safe, nurture them, guide them, but they have to learn on their own how to make themselves happy, because we don't want to create co-dependency." For theTwitchesstar, the idea of teaching boundaries early on stems from how she and her siblings were raised. "I think growing up, it was definitely a cultural thing where it's like, 'My house, my rules,' " Mowry said in the interview published on Friday. "I didn't want to do that with my children. I wanted my children to never be afraid to express themselves." Later in the conversation,The Gameactress gave a bit of insight into how things in her life have shifted since herdivorce was finalizedin April 2023after 14 years of marriage. Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic "The main important thing is making sure that the children still see the parents together and communicating, and still see them [being] cordial," Mowry said. "That's what keeps children beautifully adjusted. It keeps their nervous system calm and at ease when they see their parents are still together, we all come together as a family." Her comments came approximately a month after Mowry asked in a July 22Instagram postwhy she gets"backlash" for referring to herself as a single mother. In a text block that appeared over a video of herself combing her daughter's hair, the actress wrote, "I recognize that archetype is extremely difficult, and I truly empathize. But what often gets overlooked is the nuance of what being a single mom can actually mean." Christopher Polk/Billboard via Getty Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE's free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. "For me, in my household, I am SINGLE," she continued. Speaking to PEOPLE at the premiere of her We TV seriesTia Mowry: My Next Actin October, Mowry explained why she lets her children see her when she's not at her best, adding that Cairo gives her mom a "worry doll" to help make Mowry's "worries go away." "The thing is as a mother, you kind of try to figure out if you should allow them to see your emotions, your ups and your downs,"Mowry told PEOPLE, while expressing the importance of being "authentic." Read the original article onPeople
